Planning a wedding can be both exciting and overwhelming. To help make your special day as perfect as possible, we’ve compiled a list of 50 essential wedding do’s and don’ts. Whether you’re planning a grand celebration or an intimate gathering, these tips will guide you through the process.

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Wedding Do’s

1. Do Start Planning Early – Begin planning at least a year in advance to ensure you get the venue and suppliers you want.

2. Do Set a Realistic Budget – Determine your budget early on and stick to it to avoid unnecessary stress.

3. Do Prioritise Your Guest List – Decide who is most important to invite and create a guest list that fits your budget and venue.

4. Do Choose the Right Venue – Select a venue that fits your vision, guest count, and budget.

5. Do Hire a Wedding Planner – If your budget allows, a wedding planner can help manage details and reduce stress.

6. Do Personalise Your Ceremony – Incorporate personal elements to make your ceremony unique and special.

7. Do Consider Your Guests’ Comfort – Ensure there are plenty of seating, shade, and refreshments for your guests.

8. Do Send Save-the-Dates Early – Give your guests ample time to plan and RSVP.

9. Do Include Clear Directions – Provide easy-to-follow directions to your venue, especially if it’s off the beaten path.

10. Do Communicate with Suppliers – Keep open lines of communication with all your suppliers to ensure everyone is on the same page.

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11. Do Plan for the Weather – Have a backup plan for outdoor weddings in case of bad weather.

12. Do Have a Rehearsal – A rehearsal ensures everyone knows their roles and the ceremony runs smoothly.

13. Do Delegate Tasks– Enlist trusted friends and family to help with tasks on the big day.

14. Do Choose Meaningful Music – Select songs that are meaningful to you as a couple for your ceremony and reception

15. Do Have a Timeline – Create a detailed timeline for the day to keep everything on track.

16. Do Practice Your Vows – Rehearse your vows to avoid nerves during the ceremony.

17. Do Take Care of Yourself – Ensure you get plenty of rest, stay hydrated, and eat well in the days leading up to your wedding.

18. Do Invest in a Good Photographer – Hire a professional photographer to capture your special moments.

19. Do Have an Emergency Kit – Prepare a kit with essentials like safety pins, stain remover, and pain relievers

20. Do Incorporate Freeze-Dried Petals to your Décor – Use beautiful freeze-dried rose and hydrangea petals from Petals and Roses for decorating your aisle and tables

21. Do Stay True to Your Style – Choose a theme and decorations that reflect your personal style.

22. Do Create a Wedding Website – A website can provide your guests with all the information they need about your big day.

23. Do Plan a Memorable Exit – Plan a grand confetti exit with biodegradable petals from Petals and Roses , you won’t regret this as all your guests can get involved in the fun and you will have some amazing photographs to look back on for years to come.

24. Do Send Thank You Notes – Show your appreciation by sending thank you notes to your guests and vendors.

25. Do Enjoy the Moment – Take time to soak in the joy of your wedding day.

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Wedding Don’ts

26. Don’t Procrastinate – Avoid leaving tasks to the last minute to reduce stress.

27. Don’t Overspend – Stick to your budget to avoid financial strain after the wedding.

28. Don’t Invite Everyone You Know – Focus on inviting people who are truly important to you.

29. Don’t Micromanage – Trust your vendors and wedding party to handle their responsibilities.

30. Don’t Skip the Contracts – Always have written agreements with your vendors.

31. Don’t Forget to Feed Your Suppliers – Provide meals for your suppliers, especially if they will be there all day.

32. Don’t Ignore Dietary Restrictions – Consider any dietary needs of your guests when planning the menu.

33. Don’t Neglect the Timeline – Ensure the day flows smoothly with a well-planned schedule.

34. Don’t Forget Important Documents – Ensure all necessary paperwork, such as the marriage license, is completed well in advance to avoid last-minute issues.

35. Don’t Stress About Perfection – Remember that minor hiccups are normal and won’t ruin your day.

36. Don’t Overdo DIY Projects – DIY can be great, but don’t take on more than you can handle.

37. Don’t Forget to Eat – Make sure you and your partner take time to eat during the reception.

38. Don’t Overload Your Schedule – Allow time for breaks and moments to relax throughout the day.

39. Don’t Forget to Plan for Kids – If children are attending, provide entertainment or childcare options.

40. Don’t Skip the Rehearsal Dinner – Use this time to thank your wedding party and close family.

41. Don’t Neglect Lighting – Good lighting is crucial for creating the right atmosphere and great photos.

42. Don’t Ignore Your Budget – Keep track of expenses to avoid unpleasant surprises.

43. Don’t Forget About Transportation – Arrange transportation for yourselves and your guests if needed.

44. Don’t Try New Beauty Treatments – Avoid experimenting with new beauty treatments right before the wedding.

45. Don’t Overlook Small Details – Small touches, like personalised favours, can make a big impact.

46. Don’t Be Afraid to Ask for Help – Don’t hesitate to ask friends and family for assistance.

47. Don’t Ignore Your Partner’s Wishes – Ensure both of you have a say in the planning process.

48. Don’t Forget to Breathe – Take moments to breathe and stay calm throughout the planning and the day itself.

49. Don’t Neglect Self-Care – Keep up with your regular self-care routine to stay relaxed and healthy.

50. Don’t Forget to Have Fun – Amidst all the planning, remember to have fun and enjoy your special day!

Incorporating these do’s and don’ts into your wedding planning will help ensure your day is as beautiful and stress-free as possible. And remember, adding a touch of elegance with freeze-dried petals from Petals and Roses can make your celebration truly unforgettable.